WHY am I able to have an orgasm every time I use my vibrator but I cannot do so with a man? It makes me feel like a freak.

I am told I am an attractive and sexy woman. I am in my mid-forties and I never reached orgasm with my ex-husband of 12 years, my ex-partner of ten years or my ex-boyfriend of a year.

I am still heartbroken over the last relationship as I thought I had finally met the love of my life. I want to meet someone one day and would love to think I will be able to enjoy an orgasm with him.

ADVICE: Very few women climax through intercourse alone and need stimulation of the clitoris as well, which a vibrator is designed to do.

When you meet that next special partner, be open-minded about how you can reach orgasm together and tell him where to touch you and how.